{"id":13,"date":"2013-06-25T11:11:42","date_gmt":"2013-06-25T11:11:42","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/lippaudio.org\/BookReviews\/?p=13"},"modified":"2013-10-06T03:48:17","modified_gmt":"2013-10-06T03:48:17","slug":"why-is-it-always-about-you","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lippaudio.org\/BookReviews\/2013\/06\/25\/why-is-it-always-about-you\/","title":{"rendered":"Why Is It Always About You?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I finished reading Sandy Hotchkiss&#8217; book upon which the <a href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Narcissism#Hotchkiss.27_seven_deadly_sins_of_narcissism\" target=\"_blank\">Wikipedia Seven Deadly Sins section<\/a> is based:<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Why-Always-About-You-ebook\/dp\/B0030MQJMS\/ref=tmm_kin_title_0\" target=\"_blank\">Why Is It Always About You?: The Seven Deadly Sins of Narcissism [Kindle Edition] by Sandy Hotchkiss<\/a><\/p>\n<p>In a word, fascinating.\u00a0 Part 1 covers the 7 deadly sins, Part 2 is on the origins of a narcissist, Part 3 is on survival tactics, Part 4 on the narcissists in your life (family, love, work), and Part 5 on narcissism in society and preventing it.\u00a0 I&#8217;m still thinking about Part 2 &#8211; the theories (dating back to Freud) on how children develop from age 3-18 months.\u00a0 Its in this window that a child&#8217;s future as a normal person or narcissist is determined, where a narcissistic parent or other caregiver can create another narcissist.\u00a0 A drug users drug of choice is related to what goes wrong with this stage of development and represents an attempt to go back to that wonderful time of 3-18 months.\u00a0 Just fascinating &#8211; how did Freud and others figure this out?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I finished reading Sandy Hotchkiss&#8217; book upon which the Wikipedia Seven Deadly Sins section is based: Why Is It Always About You?: The Seven Deadly Sins of Narcissism [Kindle Edition] by Sandy Hotchkiss In a word, fascinating.\u00a0 Part 1 covers the 7 deadly sins, Part 2 is on the origins of a narcissist, Part 3 &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/lippaudio.org\/BookReviews\/2013\/06\/25\/why-is-it-always-about-you\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Why Is It Always About You?<\/span> <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[5,4],"tags":[7],"class_list":["post-13","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-management","category-personal","tag-narcissism"],"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/lippaudio.org\/BookReviews\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/lippaudio.org\/BookReviews\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/lippaudio.org\/BookReviews\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lippaudio.org\/BookReviews\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lippaudio.org\/BookReviews\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=13"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/lippaudio.org\/BookReviews\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":14,"href":"https:\/\/lippaudio.org\/BookReviews\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13\/revisions\/14"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/lippaudio.org\/BookReviews\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=13"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lippaudio.org\/BookReviews\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=13"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lippaudio.org\/BookReviews\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=13"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}